I mean, there I am minding my own business where there's Ra talkin' bout how 4s are really into procreation and opportunism, eh? So what's up, I'm a 2/4 Generator...so I'm a big ole whore?
Maybe.....maybe not too.
Sure, I've got a 59-6 thang happenin' but that's only cuz I'm a 4x VIRGO....and what's up with the Barren sign being all about the DNA proceation eh?
-Shannon
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4s are social beings not sexual beings
I have not one line 4 in my chart, and perhaps as a consequence, many of the relationships in my life have been with 4s. Opposites attract.
In my experience, 4s have such a great experience socially, that sex is just not on their map as it is for the rest of us.
Family and friends are so vibrant to 4s, they do not need sex as I do, I am a 5/2. As a 5, sex with strangers really pushes good buttons for me...
In contrast, 4s socialise and socialise, network, opportunities, for trade and tribe and support. 4s will be friendly whether they like you or not, because in Human Design ideas, every item of material support, every social contact, every situation, every job etc., must come ONLY through a personal contact, never through strangers, public notices or announcements etc.
This is their buzz, and in my experience, 4s do not worry about sex at all, until it happens, and then 4's stay very loyal and do not understand that 5s and others want to taste beyond the relationship. For 4s. sex just happens, oops, with family and friends, exclusively, and that is how it is all supposed to be. Sorry to say family, as well as friends, that rather explains too much information...?
4's opportunism is purely social, so as you are a 4, you don't want to read newspaper ads, or TV ads etc. Never. Never use anything that is not recommended personally, and until then, wait to respond, if you are a generator (or be recognised and invited if you are a projector) (manifestors figure everything out themselves, so I have no advice for them). And so as a 4 you meet meet meet people, naturally, so these people can answer every need you have. Including of course, but way down at the end of your list, sex. Procreation, maybe, but only with people you already know well, and, oops, surprise, well it was raining and ... did you want to be married? WHAT do you mean, no, why did you have sex then...?
Because of YOUR 59-6 line, others will have a very different experience of you. They experience that they already are intimate with you, and as 5s like sex with strangers, watch out, they have an agenda, while yours is simply to be friends supporting each other in good times and bad.
Some others will experience you as too intimate, get away, you ... and there is that false interpretation that your intimacy was sexual, when it truly is not. Beware either way, others may interpret your proximity as a turn on, welcome or unwelcome, and does this explain anything in your life?
Do people say, you remind me of ... well that is intimacy placing your aura into their surprise and then they link you to a memory.
DWD, Siem Reap