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Fours are sluts? I mean, there I am minding my own business where there's Ra talkin' bout how 4s are really into procreation and opportunism, eh? So what's up, I'm a 2/4 Generator...so I'm a big ole whore? Maybe.....maybe not too. Sure, I've got a 59-6 thang happenin' but that's only cuz I'm a 4x VIRGO....and what's up with the Barren sign being all about the DNA proceation eh? -Shannon
4s are social beings not sexual beingsSubmitted by solace on February 20, 2011 - 1:46pm.
Oooh, I am a little embarrassed by this entry and I find I cannot edit blog posts in here? I haven't logged on to this site in about 5 years....and I would really like to change the title of this post. And let me say thank you Digital for your very thoughtful reply. Also, I adore sex with strangers. I absolutely need to have sex in my life. I've been in open relationships (for 8 years) and I've serial dated and I've gone long stretches just having sex with strangers on the weekends while staying single. But sex is a constant. :) What you say, though, about the 59-6 channel being defined in my chart, ''They experience that they already are intimate with you,'' yeah, I feel that. I don't really have any kind of control of who notices me or why or why people feel so presumptuously comfortable/familiar around me. (This also may just relate to being a 2/4) And, when you write, ''Do people say, you remind me of ... well that is intimacy placing your aura into their surprise and then they link you to a memory.'' That does explain something that happens to me all the time...I am constantly being asked where I am from, where my family is from...as in what nationality am I. There is something about the way I look that people feel compelled to think I am Spanish, Mexican, Russian, Eastern European, Jewish, etc. (My mother has done genealogy and has found nothing beyond the fact that our family came to America through Virginia, I am all American) But people feel compelled to want to place me somewhere. Seriously, I've had people come up to me and just start speaking Russian because they think I am Russian. It's really weird. Or I get asked, ''When people say you look like a movie star, which one do they say you look like?'' Because they think I look familiar but they aren't sure why. And I don't think there is a celebrity that I look similar to. I suppose this is what you mean by, ''Do people say, you remind me of ... '' So, again, thanks for looking at this and I just wish I could change the title of this post... |
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4s are social beings not sexual beings
I have not one line 4 in my chart, and perhaps as a consequence, many of the relationships in my life have been with 4s. Opposites attract.
In my experience, 4s have such a great experience socially, that sex is just not on their map as it is for the rest of us.
Family and friends are so vibrant to 4s, they do not need sex as I do, I am a 5/2. As a 5, sex with strangers really pushes good buttons for me...
In contrast, 4s socialise and socialise, network, opportunities, for trade and tribe and support. 4s will be friendly whether they like you or not, because in Human Design ideas, every item of material support, every social contact, every situation, every job etc., must come ONLY through a personal contact, never through strangers, public notices or announcements etc.
This is their buzz, and in my experience, 4s do not worry about sex at all, until it happens, and then 4's stay very loyal and do not understand that 5s and others want to taste beyond the relationship. For 4s. sex just happens, oops, with family and friends, exclusively, and that is how it is all supposed to be. Sorry to say family, as well as friends, that rather explains too much information...?
4's opportunism is purely social, so as you are a 4, you don't want to read newspaper ads, or TV ads etc. Never. Never use anything that is not recommended personally, and until then, wait to respond, if you are a generator (or be recognised and invited if you are a projector) (manifestors figure everything out themselves, so I have no advice for them). And so as a 4 you meet meet meet people, naturally, so these people can answer every need you have. Including of course, but way down at the end of your list, sex. Procreation, maybe, but only with people you already know well, and, oops, surprise, well it was raining and ... did you want to be married? WHAT do you mean, no, why did you have sex then...?
Because of YOUR 59-6 line, others will have a very different experience of you. They experience that they already are intimate with you, and as 5s like sex with strangers, watch out, they have an agenda, while yours is simply to be friends supporting each other in good times and bad.
Some others will experience you as too intimate, get away, you ... and there is that false interpretation that your intimacy was sexual, when it truly is not. Beware either way, others may interpret your proximity as a turn on, welcome or unwelcome, and does this explain anything in your life?
Do people say, you remind me of ... well that is intimacy placing your aura into their surprise and then they link you to a memory.
DWD, Siem Reap