kip winsett
Posts: 74
Joined: 2003-08-26

Hi,

I've been a licensed analyst since, oh I guess about June 2000. And since then, I've done several readings - though not hundreds by any means.

I'd be interested to hear from other analysts what you consider a successfull reading for a client. I have, until very recently focused on "giving information", but I don't know that this plays all that well. I've thought a lot about my own reading (which I'd have to say was very successfull) and it seems that the analyst was able to:
1. Point out some things about me that nobody could really know, which gave the reading credibility.
2. Offer a couple of bits of very useful advice (e.g. with an undefined emotional center and gates 36 and 37, I'd spent my life on an emotional roller coaster that wasmn't of my own making.
3. Validate my tendency as a projector with no motors to pull up a big chair, and get comfortable.
4. Open me to an aspect of myself that I had no idea was part of me (Incarnation Cross of the Vessel of Love.

I'd like to hear from others what your experience is with giving a reading to others that will resonate with them

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Beemalchik
Posts: 329
Joined: 2004-01-13

Hello, friends!

I am also interesting, what is unsuccessfull reading for you.
Do you have problems during the reading?

For example, I am often unsatisfied with my behavior, when emotionally defined client is coming in the down of the wave. I am open emotionally. Approximately after one hour in such case I feel irritation inside me and sometimes (when it is REALLY the down) always happens situation, when I become unpolite (this is the worse case) or suddenly I can hear, that my voice is quite annoying and unpleasant.

I remeber I asked Ra two years ago - how it is - to be aware for the open Solar Plexus about somebody's emotions? He answered in such sense, that just - feel, what is inside you. And I asked - but if I want to cry in the somebody's aura or screem or whatever, shall I keep all these things inside me, just understanding, that it is not mine? Ra was very clear in his "NO". I don't remember exact words, but the sense was, that: be who you are in the moment, just remember, that it is not yours.

To be yourself - or to be nice analyst - that is the question....

Any comments?

Thanks,
Beemala

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reb
Posts: 15
Joined: 2003-11-01

I find a successful reading is when the person can take their authority, strategy and apply it. I turn on those I work with when appropriate and they ask for their chart. I give them keynotes about their behavior and personality. i always start with their strategy and repeat many times, and at the end of whatever i've told them, i get them to repeat it several times. as life unfolds and incidents occur, i'll point out thru example, the not self in their behavior. open throats and emotions are easy to site over time with someone.
i feel successful when my generator friends are proud of themselves when they tell me how they waited to respond in this and that situation. they keep me informed about their strategy and how they recognize it.

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Thanks,

Stephen Rebolledo
54.4/1 sd, emo/gen, 4 motors+spleen


kip winsett
Posts: 74
Joined: 2003-08-26

Hi Gennaro, thanks for your reply. My own design tends to lead me to "giving information". Personally I like lots of info. I took a monthly full day class in HD for a little over 3 years here in San Diego.

I sort of trust that the people who find me must need to hear what I have to say. I may try a few readings with less detail. I need to think about it. Not that my thinking will ultimately prove of any great value in my final decision. Self authority is very interesting - especially coming from the 10-20. I never really know what I'm going to do.

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admin
Posts: 1394
Joined: 2006-02-25

Hi Kip,
This is an interesting topic for me. I've watched a lot of Analysts and they all have different styles. Some are short and sweet, others go into great detail. Some are very personal, others keep it business-like. Some give terrible readings, others amazing readings. People find each other, and if the analyst is living their strategy they find the clients who want to hear exactly what you have to say.
There seems to be a trend now to not even touch on the lines. Keep it broad - focus on strategy and authority the whole time with a background flavor of Incarnation cross and profile. Before it was all about the lines and gates. I tend to be somewhere in between depending on my instincts of what I think the person should hear.
I've gotten over trying to give the reading credibility. It's cool that this stuff knows things about people that you could never possibly guess, but that is not what it's about for me. There is too much to say about their strategy and authority to get into whether HD is valid or not. In fact I usually leave them with the advice that they should go out and disprove everything I've just told them. When they come back a few months later and tell me they were not able to disprove it, that is when the credibility is really worth something!
I keep things very short and sweet. I dream of one day being able to give a two word reading - EXACTLY the two words they needed to hear. Nothing more. Like a lightning bolt to their soul. This is because when I started I spent so much time teaching them Human Design instead of giving them what they needed that the readings were diluted. Just because it is cool and interesting does not mean it is what they need to hear in order to live their strategy. It's like teaching somebody to drive - Brakes, gas pedal, and steering wheel. They don't need to know how many cylinders the engine has!


Beemalchik
Posts: 329
Joined: 2004-01-13

Hello!

What does my mind consider as a successfull Reading?
Well, it is Reading, after which person like to do Living Design Course.

The Readings with this people - may be - the most successfull for me.
I am 3/5. I am practical. If somebody want to go deeper after my Reading, if he/she is ready to pay more - so it is successfull.

I also think, that the most successfull Readings are those, after which
human being has courage to experiment with its own strategy and - thus - could awake after 7 years.

But - it is not in our hands, like nothing is in our hands....

Beemala

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