akmmba
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I have this connection theme (9-0 No Where To Go) with the man I'm seeing, and a pair of clients who are business partners have this too. Can anyone tell me about it?

Thanks,
Amanda

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Heidi
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Hey

What a great observation, Amanada. Clarity always helps, doesn't it?
From my more recent experience, it looks like Clarity IS a team sport.

Even though I know better, I still let my mind play fear games with me.
I've been feeling really frustrated because I haven't gotten stuff done (you know, what we've talked about). I know I haven't promised, but we had a plan and I feel that I'm indadequate because I haven't followed through.

At this point, it's really hard to say whether I've been (correctly) waiting to respond while going through my to-do list (and then got stuff done to which i rsponded ) or if I'm just taking action on other stuff trying to alleviate not-self fears of the open spleen etc.

Hmm, sometimes I wish my sacral would respond by email.:(

Question: does anyone know what's up with those 'compromise' channels that we have in our connection chart?

Thanks!

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akmmba
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Thanks for commenting, Heidi!

Cool post, Heidi. I love that our connection theme is called "Work To Do" because I feel energized about the work we do together, when we are talking together. It's interesting that the ego center and the splenic are still open - I have a vague sense of those openings when we interact...as if we are short a little bit of willpower and we can both feel threatened in terms of our survival (financial, etc). Very interesting.

-Amanda

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Heidi
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Hi Amanda

I didn't know that you posted this interesting topic here.

Anyways, I posted our connection chart here:
http://www.heidicostas.com/heidirave.html

I think it's quite amazing how we engage each other.

Gennaro, thanks for the explanation on the connection theme "nowhere to go'; I had been a bit concerned :) and puzzled because I did't know how to interpret it correctly.

I agree with Amanda, our connection does feel insular; there isn't any room for anybody else to contribute or distract us from what we want to work on together. (i hope, hehe!)

I met Amanda in person and I instantly felt kinship and a real urge to encourage her to show herself more to the world. It's hard to explain: I felt the richness and uniqueness of her and a bit of frustration about the fact that others don't see what I see in her. I remember that I shared that with her, and she was quite shocked!

I also felt very comfortable because she's what I call 'stubborn' :). I think it's more that she's living her convictions and I don't have to worry about 'dragging' her up or down with my mg firecracker energy. In other words, I feel that I am on good, solid ground with plenty to engage with.

Funny that I didn't think she was a projector. May be that a certain intrusiveness that I usually feel when I engage with projectors was overpowered by the 39-55 channel. I remember we cried when we first talked in person. So interesting? It's like all plugs were pulled. we had fun talking and sharing but there was an extremely intense emotional stirring in the air.

I'd be willing to share, Amanda, on how all this unfolds and maybe we are lucky enough to get some cool insights about what to do with all this info that's in our connection chart.

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admin
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8-1

well i have 8-1 Have Some Fun with my partner and we are not that insular. in theory that one open center (in our case it is the head center) is where others can enter our relationship. but since both her and i are not the types to "hang out" (we both like to spend our day working on our own thing), there is never really a time when we hang out with others. During our rare off time we spend it together without others. So I don't know. Theoretically the people who she and I would hang out with would have a defined head center or at least connect with one of our gates up there to define it. Although this is the case with the few people i can think of who we hang out with, it is too few to tell.


akmmba
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Well... what you said about the relationship being "insular" feels right. Both relationships show up as having a very solid, intimate core, and a really cool level of commitment. It feels quiet, like a rock. They both show up like a stable bedrock, and there is a feeling that nobody else belongs in that inside part.

As I think about other relationships/partnerships I've had, this one does seem to have a qualitatively different feel to it in a subtle way...Of course, I don't know the other connection themes so I have little to compare it to.

Thanks,
Amanda

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admin
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is your relationship "insular". 9-0 means there is no center where others can get into your relationship. it is a closed party. This is what it is in theory but why don't you tell us what it is in practice.