delacy
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I am an emotionally defined MG. I understand that emotional authority overrides others. But how does one use multiple authorities? I also have a defined spleen. And I am very conscious of "in the now" knowings and of the gut yes/no response. since my authority is to wait, how do I use the splenic definition? Do I have 3 authorities: sacral, splenic, and emotional? I am confused! :?

Thanks, Donna

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delacy
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Hello all you HD enthusiasts - it has been awhile since I have studied this material - I am born under the cross of the unexpected and life is never the same for very long at a time :wink: But Hallow sent a reply to my ages old message, and so unexpectedly I found myself being reminded about my definition....and guess what? - for me I found that it all fits even more clearly with a little rest from the study to let it all sink in.
Hallow, your explanation of having the same three defined centers as I do really fits. Guess I just need some time for the emotional waves to do their thing. Very interesting....

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Dear Delacy,
I think it is that the emotional system is so intense that it can override the sacral or the spleen. Thus making a decision with the sacral or the spleen could be a result of a feeling in the solar plexus.

I am also a MG with both the spleen and the solar plexus. I think you can use your spleen and sacral to take a “snapshot” of a decision. After you have taken many “snapshots” over a period of time then you can make your decision with your emotional authority.

I think the issue of time is that the bigger the decision the longer the period of time is. Like Beemalchik pointed out it dos take more time then you would think. I do think that the spleen and sacral play a role in the decision making though. They can help you gather information about your decision they just can’t ever be the determining factor

Let me know what you think!!


rme
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Being an emotional MG how would I choose a meal in a restaurant then? I mean there simply isn't the time to go through the emotional wave.

I mean, if life forces me to make decisions instantly does that that mean I should ALWAYS walk away and think about it?
If there is no time just forget the whole thing?

This sounds very difficult but not impossible. More unusual but worth a thought.

Maybe it's not meant for emotional authorities to walk in a new restraurant everyday spontaneously.

hmmm, I like the idea of that.

Steve

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Donna:

I feel that you can use your intuition to help you to know when your emotional wave is clear about something. With splenic definition you know what I mean when I say there are times that you absolutely know what to do in a given situation with no input from anything or anybody. Use this to your advantage.

Think about it, you have a built in back up system to help keep your mind out of your decision making process. Your intuition can be a wonderfull guide for you as you are waiting for your emotional wave to clear so you can respond correctly with your sacral...and the beauty is that, unlike your mind, your intuition will never think it is in charge. It can only do what is correct for you.

In one of Gennaro's postings he said that he learned to live his design by not living it. You can experiment with this by initiating something on a whim and then seeing how whatever it is doesn't really work out for you. You will see that it is not correct for you to be spontaneous. It is correct for you to wait to respond after you have given your emotions time to cycle around for awhile. Your intuition will help you to know when you've waited long enough.

Happy sailing

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Beemalchik
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Hello, dear Donna!
Of course - you are hazy - you are emotional! That is how it works!
You need time to get clarity - about this or about that - the hierarchy of things does not matter. Just take time - more than 4 monthes - and little by little things from HD will be grasped.

"And we make decisions constantly through our day - I can't wait for the emotional wave for daily life things..." I don't know what you call - daily life things...If we are talking about drinking tea or taking bathroom - ye, may be (may be!) it is not so important to wait time for clarity.

(Still - my observation of my emotional friends and my emotional husband shows me, that this simple question "Would you like to drink cofee?" put them in some... how to say...little confuse - "m-m... I don't know...m-m.. may be"
"Or may be you prefer tea?" - "M-m... may be..." It is quite often story. Being nonemotional, before knowing of Human Design, 4 years ago I became very annoying with this non clarity. Now I just wait 5 -10 minutes and then ask second or third time the same question about tea, about cofee. Very-very mundane things. But as for me very demonstration. I see now that even in so simple questions emotionally defined people need time - that is their nature)

Invitation of your friends, poster about party, call of your mother to come and so on - are these daily life things for responding? Sure. And as emotionally defined person you need time, you need to be asked more than 1 time - to hear your sacral respond and to feel your spleen more than 1 time. Just - it is - how it works. If somebody invite you NOW and you have no time for waiting, - does not matter, what your spleen tell you - this invitation is not for you.

And - "I find when I do finally make a decision, even though I have waited, the actual decision making moment comes suddenly" - yes - it is how it works. When clarity is coming - you know it inside you.

-"So, I just don't know if I am really living my strategy / authority or not." - Always when you feel frustration - you did't go out of your strategy.

My own experience show, that in the beginning we even can not really understand - if we are frustrated from this or that! - we so used to live in frustration. Living non correctly as to our bodies from the childhood, we are living in frustration and frustration becomes for us quite natural, it becomes ''O'KEY''. That is why things, which you do without waiting could seems notfrustrated (could seems), but it does not mean that it is so..

Best regards - Beemala

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delacy
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thanks, Beemala -- that does help, but I am still a bit hazy on the what one does with their definition. Again, I am very splenic defined - and my whole life have used my intuition. I "hear" how to respond to things all day long - always have. And, we make decisions constantly throughout our day - I can't wait for the emotional wave for daily life things. That is why I wonder about how I use my defined spleen while at the same time having emotional authority.
I have been doing the "experiment" of living my design for about 4 months. It has been a wonderful relief to just not decide when things pop up for me to consider. But still, I find when I do finally make a decision, even though I have waited, the actual decision making moment comes suddenly. So, I just don't know if I am really living my strategy / authority or not.
And my generator yes/no mechanism is also somewhere in all this decision making information. I'm just thinking out loud here. Thanks! Donna

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Beemalchik
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Hello, dear Donna!

When we are talking about authority - we are talking about authority of making decisions. If you are emotionally defined - you have only one way to make your decisions - to wait for clarity and it is need time for this, just time - nothing more.

Defined Spleen could be the authority only in case of open Solar Plexus. If you have defined Spleen and defined Solar Plexus - automatically you have Solar Plexus as your authority. Sure, your instinct is working and you somehow could feel in the moment, what is good or bad for you - but... This your feeling - is only part of truth, and your decision needs "as more parts of truth as possible" to make picture whole and to decide this or that correctly for your body. That is why you need time - to feel through time your "spleen's truths" in line of continuity.

Just think logocally - every center is associated with some organs in our body, so, if we live the life not according to the rules of operating of our centres - we have illnesses. Solar Plexus is associated to pancrease, kidneys, nervouse system. If you don't wait before you make your decision (does not matter, that the Spleen is also defined) you just defeat your kidneys, nervouse system, pancrease.

In this aspect of view I even could say, that for making decisions it is not so important could you feel in the moment, what is correct for you or not, because the most important is to operate correctly, according with how your body is designed by this wonderful totality - and for you it is waiting in time, going through all edges of your emotional wave till the moment of clearness.

Best wishes - Beemala

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